In life we often look to satisfy ourselves and do things that are only beneficial to us. Although the world may tell you these principals are good the bible teaches us that this is not the way God intends us to act.  As Christians we are to follow the example of Jesus. Who lowered him selfbtonour level and dedicated his life to us, so that he can present us to himself as a holy person. So take a look at your life who are you building up.  In know as a father and a professor that in order to get people to the sane level of understanding as you you have to get down to their level of understanding and bring them up. This is exactly what Jesus did for us. He came down to us at our level and taught and showed us how to live a life dedicated to Him. So again I will ask you WHO ARE YOU HELPING?

http://bible.com/111/jas.3.16.niv For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.
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